Daily Archives: December 13, 2011

Foster parenting

I have been involved in consulting work with Children’s Aid Societies all my professional life. I have assessed children who needed to be in the Care of the Society, and I have assessed children while they were in Care. I have seen up close the effects of neglect and abuse. I have also been privileged to see the effects of foster parenting, and to be involved in training and coaching of foster parents. To see children blossom when they become safe, when they learn to trust that they matter and will be taken care, is one of life’s great experiences. It is that for the foster parents as well, I think, even though it can be tough going at times. Children do not give away their hearts readily when those hearts have not been cared for as they needed to be.

Recently the Kingston Children’s Aid Society launched a recruitment drive for foster parents, and they added a unique twist. They made a targeted approach to the faith communities in Kingston. This strikes me as a very smart thing to do. Being a church-goer absolutely does not by itself give you the skills to be a foster parent, but it does hopefully say something about the softness and the openness you would bring to this very important role. Add in the training and the potential for success looks very good.

As you can see, I support the campaign.

A meeting with faith community representatives was held on October 13, and there was sharing of experiences as well as generation of ideas how to get the word out to parishioners/ members of congregations. If you live in the Kingston area and wish to be part of this, let me know and I will put you in touch with the appropriate staff.

Whether you live in Kingston or anywhere else, the need for foster parents is significant. What about you? Want to make a difference in a child’s life? This is an up-close way to do it. You would get screened, you go through training, and you get paid for the work. Call your local Children’s Aid Society to check it out. In Kingston it is 613-542-7351.

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Foster parenting

CAS: Highlights from the Advent Evening of Recollection

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Stuart Chessman of the Society of St. Hugh of Cluny reports on the Catholic Artists Society’s Advent Evening of Recollection…

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An evening of recollection, with benediction and the opportunity of confession sponsored by the Catholic Artists Society – all in the magnificent surroundings of Old St. Patrick’s Cathedral (now a basilica). It was followed by a most pleasant reception in the rectory of the church – in the very room where Archbishop McCloskey received his cardinal’s hat – he was the first American Cardinal.

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An inspiring meditation, specifically addressed to the artistic community, was given by Fr.Jonathan Morris. He referred to Pope Benedict’s comments on the special role of the artist. Through the “production” of art the artist in a sense shares in the ministry of the church; he leads people to the same goal as the clergy seek to do.

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Second, the artist’s experience of beauty contributes to the spiritual development of the artist himself. His talent is not separate from his spiritual life but is a means by which the Holy Spirit seeks to lead him to salvation.

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The experience of beauty does not remove us from reality but deepens our encounter with it. This is why the artist often has a higher “velocity” of spiritual life. The temptation to mediocrity, however, is a threat to us all but expecially to the artist. For the devil wants nothing more than that a man should be only a “good guy.”

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Many thanks to the pastor of St. Patrick’s, Monsignor Donald Sakano, for hosting this special evening.

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CAS: Highlights from the Advent Evening of Recollection

A Typical Atypical day

5:30 – Wake up, stumble out of bed

5:45 – Impale foot on some sort of spiky toy left out by one of the kids.

5:45 and 3 seconds – Stifle yell while balancing on non throbbing foot

6:00 – Make coffee which I no longer really need due to the red welt on the bottom of my foot

6:15 – Listen to daily scripture readings while preparing breakfast

7:00 – Wake kids

7:30 – Wake kids again

8:00 – Feed kids breakfast

8:15 – Clean up the cereal Raphael has chosen to wear on his head.

8:30 – Morning chores

9:00 – School starts

9:15 – Explain to the kids (again) that studying latin is a good foundation for learning other languages

9:30 – Tell the kids that it is NOT time to play the Wii…and that no Wii bowling will not count as Phys. Ed.

10:00 – Find the meatball that rolled off the plate last week

11:00 – Stop Nathan from gouging Raphael’s eyes out with some ninja like maneuver he learned watching Power Rangers with his older brothers.

12:00 – Start lunch

12:05 – Stop fight over who gets to use the “wheelie” chair

1:00 – Resort to arbitration as to who gets to wash and who gets to dry.

2:00 – Hit the wall. Tell kids to watch a movie…something educational…..they end up watching zaboombafoo. Leave bigger kids in charge.

2:01 – Take a nap while they are watching zaboombafoo.

2:40 – Bigger kids send almost two year old to wake you up….by “patting” you on the face….

2:41 – Little kids then jump on you to ask you if they can watch another episode.

2:45 – Tell big kids to write a research report on the animals they talked about on zaboombafoo. Whining ensues.

3:30 – School day ends.

3:35 – Tell the kids to play out side

5:00ish – Dinner

6:00 dance/ aikido/ meetings depending on any given night.

8:30 – Night time prayers / little kids bedtime

9:00 – big kids bed time

10:00 – lights out

10:05 – Issue warnings…..

10:10 – Administer discipline

11:00 – Bed. Bliss.

TiPSI Dad

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A Typical Atypical day